Lisa and Lam

and no I am not talking about an item on the registry (that no longer exists BTW).

There is all this pressure for things to be "perfect". What exactly is perfect? Is it that nothing goes wrong on the big day? Is it your body (every nook and cranny) looks immaculate for at least one day of your life (every hair in place, every nail painted just so, every bead held on with its rightful thread)? I want to redefine what perfect means to me, but I am having a hard time. Sometimes I feel like I am breaking the norm, but other times I feel like I am breaking the bank. What is a happy medium?

I do have to say though that things are coming together very nicely, and the vision of our (read: my) perfect day is taking shape.